While
studying education, something that is always mentioned is the positive
classroom community. We’ve all realized that learning cannot take place in an
uncomfortable or unfriendly environment, so we need to have a positive
classroom community. But what exactly does the word community mean? To paraphrase
a large amount of different definitions, a community is a a “group of people
sharing common goals and attitudes”. So to think about what I would like my
classroom to look like, I would want my students to have an attitude that they
can accomplish anything I give them, and a goal to do their best and learn as
much as they can.
To
connect to the article on mindfulness, while the idea of The Still Quiet Place
may seem a little goofy, I think it would really work in a high school
classroom. School is stressful enough and sometimes even I find myself needing
to take a step back and look at things in smaller pieces instead of just the
large final product. A friend of mine that teaches social work classes at RIC
was recently telling me about how it’s that time of year when his inbox is
swamped with student emails and that he ends all of his e-mails with “remember
to take deep breaths”, something I feel everyone forgets. But to get back on
The Still Quiet Place, after I read the article on mindfulness on Thursday, I
was immediately determined to use this practice at work the next day, and I
knew exactly who I was going to use it on.
There
is this one 8 year old boy that I often refer to in my head as “the end of the
world kid”, because if the littlest thing goes wrong or someone looks at him
the wrong way, he seems to act like the world is coming to an end, having a
full on tantrum. Well, Friday morning at 7:00 A.M. when his brother told him he
didn’t want him on his foosball team, he began crying and screaming at his
brother calling him a “stupid jerkface”. Even though I was half asleep still,
The Still Quiet Place popped into my head and I quickly called this child over
and told him I wanted to try something out. He started to cry more because he
thought he was in trouble, saying he didn’t really mean what he said. I
reassured him he wasn’t in trouble and when his sobs turned to whimpers I had
him close his eyes and find his quiet place. He relaxed very quickly and when
he was finally relaxed enough, he gave me a hug and went back to playing. I was
impressed at how well it seemed to work and I am definitely planning on using
it on a larger group. Unfortunately it was about 20 minutes until it seemed
like the world was ending again. I now know I have another tool in my back
pocket to use when things seem to get a little out of hand. I’m actually
curious about other techniques like this that could be used to relax students.
